If you count the number of times God commands us to be accepting of one another compared to the verses that teach confrontation it is like 90 percent accepting and 10 percent confronting. People who always talk about confronting are miss representing the bible.The bible teaches that authority is not given as a position. It is not passed down in families. It is not every person in the culture agreeing on morals. Authority is simply establishing relationships. It is communicating in a way that we are not the ultimate judge.When you use the bible to demand submission you dont need a wife you need a slave. You put someone in a box dont get married.You know what is common among divorced men. They have a big mouth and refuse ti keep it closed and they will not treat their wife with respect .They want a slave and thats why she leaves.If christians are judgemental about personality disorders it would save them a lot of hard ache they cause by volunteering to help the physically handicap. There are millions of handicap in our country. You have no idea what you are talking about.Jesus had to interact with two types of people He had to fellowship with sinners and correct the self righteous Its probably safer to fellowship with sinners than to live among the self righteous sinners like karma. The self righteous are dangerously controlling and judgmental.We cannot possibly be genuine unless we wrestle through our desperate prayer to see God as greater than what we could ever imagine and worse than we could ever think. We must step out of the way.God gives us the bad wishes in order to avoid the behaviors. He gives us the good wishes in order to be genuine with others. The only people who act to destroy are those who are not satisfied with the wishes.God deals with us as free moral agents. He gave us wishes or desires so that we know ourselves. We know what we like and what we do not like. He gives us bad wishes because we learn we are valuable when He listens to us and respects our desires. Our self respect will be shownAs God governs over all created things in controlling all societies so we pronounce the axioms in order to rule with eternal powers in an eternal kingdom. We put the Devil and his children on a chain.