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1351  Forums / Main Forum / Re: A good wife on: April 30, 2012, 08:15:35 PM
(shrug)  What you posted is about "station", and really has nothing to do with what I've been talking about, which has been abuse.  Therefore, in terms of "perspective", I'll leave it to readers to decide for themselves concerning that.

your the first one in the line of post  that brought the word "abuse" up. His post was neutral and i did not see him smirk or whatever. If he is saying there is a legitimate reason to hit or abuse your wife then i would say you have a right to attack him.  So i guess it would be wise to let the viewers decide.
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1352  Forums / Main Forum / Re: A good wife on: April 30, 2012, 07:40:33 PM
“A woman must be a woman and cannot be a man. She, too, is God's creature and her divine station is that she should bear and care for and rear children. So I am a man created for another office and work. But should I be proud because of this and say: I am not a woman, therefore I am better in the sight of God? Should I not rather praise God for creating both the woman and me also through the woman and putting me in this station? What a un-Christian thing it is that one should despire another because he is in another station or is doing something other then he is doing?... "Everyone who exalts himself will be humbled." for God will not and can not tolerate such pride and arrogance.”
― Martin Luther


“False preachers are worse than deflowerers of virgins.”
― Martin Luther, The Table Talk of Martin Luther

Im not saying your a false preacher .. but just putting it into perspective.
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1353  Forums / Break Room / Re: Godspell on: April 30, 2012, 07:17:26 PM
“The devil, the originator of sorrowful anxieties and restless troubles, flees before the sound of music almost as much as before the Word of God....Music is a gift and grace of God, not an invention of men. Thus it drives out the devil and makes people cheerful. Then one forgets all wrath, impurity, and other devices.”
― Martin Luther

“Beer is made by men, wine by God.”
― Martin Luther
“Be a sinner and sin boldly, but believe and rejoice in Christ even more boldly.”
― Martin Luther

“You have as much laughter as you have faith.”
― Martin Luther

“There comes a time when one must take a position that is neither safe, nor politic, nor popular, but he must take it because his conscience tells him it is right....”
― Martin Luther
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1354  Forums / Main Forum / Re: A good wife on: April 30, 2012, 06:11:26 PM
so gouda you see what transpires here... sinner1 of which i am not sure that maybe Jim has a connection about group therapy... well she is very strong on telling people how to conduct their sex lives but at the same time Jim comes attacking a person who happens to introduce an article about behavior without any anger or encouragement to attack women and he lambast Gman... then s1 who is very moral comes back and takes his side. Who displayed the obvious anger here?
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1355  Forums / Key Life Forum / Re: Three pre-paid sins? on: April 30, 2012, 05:06:27 PM
Jesus pronounced blessing and cursing. And many people describe Jesus life on this earth as trying to force people to compliance of the law or offering people some suggestions about what they should do. lol But actually if Jesus told me to go and sin no more I would be absolutely enjoined to His forgiveness and His protection. I get this indirectly through the Spirit but i bet her confidence was never the same after that.
Its interesting because Jesus also brought the anger of the mob under control. How many other men could prevent an abusive situation by saying "He who is without the sin...cast the first stone"? In this day the violent men would have responded to the accusation with abuse. lol But Jesus by the words of His mouth.. turned these adulterers away. So you see Jesus words preventing and producing. These men were brought to this situation and deserved retribution. They did not know that the future was going to be meeting Jesus in this way. But this came upon them when they did not expect it and the pronouncement was sudden. And i believe the author is giving us a vision of what Jesus is going to do when He divides the sheep from the goats. If Jesus did not have a personal knowledge of every man in these two different groups then how did He know that it would happen in the future? You see when Jesus speaks we find that word brings men to a cross road.. it curses the wicked and blesses the righteous. Jesus has already spoken and there is only one hope..bow down or be eternally condemned.
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1356  Forums / Main Forum / Re: A good wife on: April 30, 2012, 04:02:54 PM
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1357  Forums / Main Forum / Re: A good wife on: April 30, 2012, 03:18:31 PM
JimR, I'm glad you are here posting, and I'm glad you are doing the work you are doing.  Thank you!  I know women are not perfect - for sure - but I don't think men realize how much power they have over women or how deeply they can hurt, even destroy a woman who looks to them for approval.

As an "Eve" my desire has been to my husband (or father, or whoever was the significant male in my life); and these men have ruled over me as the scriptures say they will.  Men don't realize their power over, or responsibility before God for, the way they treat the women in their lives.

Some of the things that really hurt are the personal attacks such as comparing us to other women, as you referenced above.  This is why women find the wandering eye, unfaithfulness, and porn so hurtful.  Also hurtful are more subtle things - comments, criticisms, looks - that let you know in a hundred little ways you are not approved of.  A woman's soul is crushed when she realizes how hopeless it is for her to ever gain your approval.

As the old song goes, "Loving you is her whole happiness."  Such as sentiment might sound old fashion or sappy, but it's true - I would only rephrase it as, "Her feeling loved by you is her whole happiness."  And nothing makes a woman in love feel more hurt than to feel she can never be good enough to be loved and approved of by the man she seeks to please.

Sorry, I'm rambling.  Keep up the good work, JR.  
 

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1358  Forums / Main Forum / Re: A good wife on: April 30, 2012, 03:09:31 PM


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1359  Forums / Theology Forum / Re: Romans and the Flesh Monster. on: April 29, 2012, 12:36:51 PM
The apostle in Romans 7 in my opinion was not focused on his frustration with indwelling sin. But he was frustrated because his desire in the height of his experience of the glory of God could not be satisfied. And this is the same thing focus the apostle had in Ephs 1 where he breaks out into this adoration of the love and eternal faithfulness of God in sovereignly choosing us.
So the apostle who was lifted up to the third heaven to view these things could go no higher while he was in this flesh. And i think he say that the main problem was that indwelling sin was always pulling him down.
Let me talk about his painful frustration. We can be so drawn out in our lives to experience our new desires as if they prevailed over out experience. So we can develop like a muscle this strong longing. And so we find such wonder and mystery that it seems like we are worn out looking any more. And we want so much to go higher so to speak. We want so much more to know this experience in a more deeper way.
And this is what Jesus was encouraging us to do. He wants us to pray for the Holy Spirit. He wants us to seek Him and search for Him alone. He wants us to experience this high view of God and come down to only see that we were not completely satisfied. And so the apostle was familiar with this painful frustration of always having this sin in him keeping him from all that he wanted. What was the only place he could get relief? It was in Christ.

“This is the reason why our Theology is certain: because it seizes us from ourselves and places us outside ourselves.”
― Martin Luther
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1360  Forums / Theology Forum / Re: Gods Love on: April 29, 2012, 11:56:39 AM
Gods love is eternal. So if we compare it to time and space it goes out beyond the earth below, to the rite and left , and above. So Gods love cannot be obtained by finite beings. Because our power only expands to the ends of the earth. But if our love could go beyond time and space then we would be independent of God.

So all of these relationships we have on this earth fall short of Gods love. And in comparison to Gods faithfulness and love man is useless. Now the only way that we can experience Gods love is to be lifted up higher than we are. We must have God give us the ability to access the infinite. All of these infinite attributes of God are like companions to us. In other words if God who is a person loves us he shows this in time as if there were other people attending to our needs and protecting us as if they were real companions. Its not a matter of hope that this relationship with the eternal is secured but its appointed in time for us to know these companions. lol

Why do we need eternal companions to understand how unable we are to make our own appointments as to understanding faithfulness? Because we are surrounded by corruption on every side. Our sight is been dimmed and ineffective. And so God describes our need of a new spiritual sight in understanding His wisdom to only get relief when we are lifted up into the eternal to view the finite. And this is like the beatific vision. Or its God granting us companions of love and faithfulness in which we get wisdom to understand the eternal purposes in our path. These two companions sort of get under us in worship and lift us up above the finite. So we ascend in worship to fellowship with God our Father.

And so we are raised up to view the eternal love of God and in this we are appointed these companions of love and faithfulness to protect us. These companions are God- Himself who is love and His word that is exalted. Not the word as on a page but the Spirit or Gods justifying us that keeps us to the end. When we give the author of our salvation His due we experience His love and when we trust in His faithful word... that Word that became flesh... the word that we look to for salvation.. then we experience faithfulness. We are lifted in praise and adoration in this eternal experience and we rest in having love and faithfulness at our side. Now listen His love and faithfulness are what lifts us up. These companions are absolutely necessary in order for our hearts to be expanded to eternal praise and adoration. One follows the other. There is no other option.  Have you prayed or wished for God to appoint His love and faithfulness to protect you?


“Discipleship is not limited to what you can comprehend--it must transcend all comprehension. Plunge into the deep waters beyond your own comprehension, and I will help you to comprehend even as I do. Bewilderment is the true comprehension. Not to know where you are going is the true knowledge. My comprehension transcends yours. Thus Abraham went forth from his father and not knowing whither he went. He trusted himself to my knowledge, and cared not for his own, and thus he took the right road and came to his journey's end. Behold, that is the way of the cross. You cannot find it yourself, so you must let me lead you as though you were a blind man. Wherefore it is not you, no man, no living creature, but I myself, who instruct you by my word and Spirit in the way you should go. Not the work which you choose, not the suffering you devise, but the road which is clean contrary to all that you choose or contrive or desire--that is the road you must take. To that I call you and in that you must be my disciple.”
― Martin Luther
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1361  Forums / Main Forum / Re: A good wife on: April 28, 2012, 11:47:15 AM
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1362  Forums / Theology Forum / Re: Gods Love on: April 28, 2012, 09:54:27 AM
Gods love comes through grace alone. No matter what happens in our earthly relationships the only source of real acceptance is in Gods love. Because God loves us with His will that cannot fail. The only way that we can accept this God who wills and it is accomplished is to acknowledge that unless God does a work then nothing is rite. The only other option is to play God.
Gods love is that He forgives us freely. This means that He always accepts us on the basis of His forgiveness and not our attitude or ability. Because God does not allow us to define our own sins in our own terms but He show us acceptance by going beyond just doing the work in order to forgive us. He actually destroys sin and Satan. Gods law is not just His will but it also determines the kind of destruction and the person who receives that punishment. Every thing that God does in our experience of forgiveness is done with the foresight of out entire lives as not really being able to be at peace with all men. Because God pronounces a curse on the law breaker He raises His law to advance His agenda ..that being a mystery that is impossible to figure out and it includes having enemies. And if you have never been the subject of God speaking from Sinai not only the law but cursing the wicked then you have never had a real encounter with a mysterious God.
This is why the apostle Himself who was responsible for ruining a great number of christian families was able to say "I do not have the blood of any man on my hands"! Why did He say this? This is what modern psychologist say is denial. lol Because Paul really believed the gospel and He really was a man who believed in free grace. So Paul lived in that grace even faced with people who might be offended. lol
Let me say that anyone who lowers the law is guilty of a violation of death. And it does not matter how many doctorates you have. lol This same apostle who ravaged the church .. who would have been a matter of the gossip of the tabloids in modern language ...told the Galatians that if any man preached another Gospel.. let "Him be cursed"! But Paul... what about the tabloids saying that your in denial? lol Listen this shows that our confession is about life and death and not about the law as if it controlled our society. It shows the fear the apostle had about God cursing sinners. Gods love is free.
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1363  Forums / Key Life Forum / Re: Three pre-paid sins? on: April 28, 2012, 08:58:26 AM
Unlike Thor who believes that the act of faith enables salvation. Which is teaching that feelings control our reaction to sin and to the law. Because if our faith is good prior to Gods call then we offer something for God to enable us to know salvation.

You are confusing salvation faith with other types of shallow faith of belief. (maybe you do not even know there is a difference)
Believing something and actually believing in something are two different forms of faith. 
Faith brings us salvation if we act upon it and receive Christ (otherwise it is stillborn). The operative words are “act on your faith”.

Example:
If a man can walk across the Grand canyon on a tightrope carrying a person and you not only see him do it but fully “believe” he can carry anyone including yourself, that is a like the seed of faith.
So at first you have this faith but what will you do with this intellectual faith when the man tells you to hop on his shoulders while he make s another trip across the grand canyon.
Now your faith can no longer be just in your head but you have to actually live it (if it’s real). This is the faith the Bible is talking about and this is the faith that Jesus wants from us. Jesus can carry us on his shoulders anywhere but do you trust Him?
When you say yes to Jesus and trust Him then God forgives you, fills you with His Holy Spirit and guilds you according to His plan for you. You become a New Creature and obeying God is now something you desire and look forward to doing.

Experiencing that God loves you and has forgiven all your sins and knowing God’s Word also tells us this gives the new believer assurance of salvation. God helps the believer obey Him (not force, but helps!)

If there is a problem with sin then that could mean one of two possibilities.
One: the person is not born again and is trying to please God in their own strength and their heart remains prideful and stubborn towards God. They lie to themselves and others about their devotion but their actions reveal their true heart.
Two: the believer has unconfessed sin or some secret sin they will not acknowledge or confess to God. This is a canal or flesly believer and they have no peace.

Thor  cool



I dont really know why God saves people in different ways. Because i am not God. lol But it may be very little conviction of sin. I know some people who grew up from infants in the church who have more assurance than some people who have had a profound change. So experience really is not a very good barometer of the health of faith. I think focusing on what is the proper confession or how much pain and misery a person must go through is self defeating. Because faith is not looking back at our old image but its forgetting what is behind and pressing forward.
Now if more people acted upon their faith then there would be more grace for the other people to follow. But some people like to focus on on thing and drag people back under the obligations in the sense that the law is used as a school master. I will say this if you do not believe in Jesus with all of your heart the act of praising Him could save you.
And i do not think any experience is valid in itself but most of the time i really believe that we are drawn in a sinister way toward focusing on our sins and squeezing every ounce of conviction out of it. But i really do not believe that Jesus was on this earth to chide the sinners into compliance. But rather Jesus came as the only standard of righteousness and His purpose was to save His people from their sins. And so we see Him coming to a people who had been abused by the counting system. lol
A lot of people take these stories of Jesus and sort of take them out of their context and give them a personal application in their life story. But Jesus was not only the teacher but He was the person who ordered the events He taught. lol So Jesus success was that His will could not be thwarted. lol What kind of hope did this bring to all the abused people?
Well it gave them freedom to come to Jesus as sinners. In other words sin was only odious because of the bondage of the law. It was abusive because Jesus was not present for most of the lives of the people He saved. Because Jesus was the only hope of seeing a law keeper in the flesh. And so these people had a sense of hopelessness in their efforts to try to please these teachers of the law. But Jesus was not a fake. He was not playing the religious game. lol Jesus gave the people freedom to accept that they could not gain their righteousness in this culture of this religious environment.
So you know what he did? He did not hang out at the temple. lol He hung out with the sinners. Can you imagine the hope He brought to these people who had been abused?  Their evil dancing became fun again! Their tendencies to fall into their sins were not threatened with a fine or some kind of abuse. Jesus not only saved sinners but He freed them from the yoke of the bondage of the religious system.

This is what we are trying to say by this. As long as your in this flesh your gonna fall and sin. But Jesus has brought a new day. He has conquered sin and guilt. He has triumphed. Its ok to hate those abusers. Jesus let the people stone them to death. And its ok be be suspicious of a person who believes that salvation can come from a good story or keeping some kind of law. Dont let them reduce the christian life to a treachery of sin and misery. If you have found the love of God let Jesus love you. Praise Him and then every day seek to praise Him even more. 
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1364  Forums / Main Forum / Re: Truth… on: April 27, 2012, 02:54:06 AM
always like reading you Tom

Thanks Poppy...



Let me talk about the psychology of a reprobate because i do not think people understand the evil of this kind of person. Ive seen men in positions of authority actually knowingly treat christians differently because they think christians are so forgiving and easy to control. And i do not think its wise to create a dichotomy in the will of the new man. Because i do not believe the bible teaches this. But rather the psychology is one of creating blessing or disaster.

Let me explain. Most of the terms used about the christian context of the soul are military terms. So we are in a sense involved with hand to hand combat with the devil and evil. Although we do not fight the devil directly we still go out on a dangerous path when we are in the mist of the vile and reprobate because Satan wants to sift us. What i am saying here is that evil in a person does not necessarily mean the person is on the devils side. But the bible distinguishes the evil of a righteous man and the wicked man.

If you ever memorize these Psalms you will see that a wicked mans evil is always with the intent to destroy and capture -to dominate by force. Where as a believer is always obligated to apply for grace. So in this sense a believer never sins again after he is covered by Christ because Christ has stood in the christians place ...not just covering the sin but pleading the christians case. lol

So we have this intent which the evil man wants to get his hands on the christian. In some way that man is bent on destruction. And it is said that a fool can actually have satan enter him in order to act in this malicious way. This is why we are to pray not to let us enter into this kind of temptation.

So we in a sense can be ambushed by wicked men. The bible says that there is only one path that we walk on. Its the path of righteousness .We may fall into a pit but we cannot stray from that path. So on this path we must advance to overcome. There is no other option. There is no impersonal forces leading us down this path. It has been planned by God from eternity. But there are dangers. And one of them is for our day of evil. We always are surprised because not only do we face this trouble but the devil adds more trouble in a personal way.

What a wise man does is to learn how to see when God gives these men into the wise mans hands. It is said that a wise man can conquer because of the wicked strong holds. In other words God holds these wicked men in their own destruction. He turns their evil intents inward. lol So that we have a promise on this way that not only are we protected from their ambushes but we have an opportunity to turn their evil in upon their heads.
This is the event that God creates. Because if they succeeded then we would be destroyed. Because in this life there is no in between. We either advance or we are destroyed.

Now in this world with all this universalism there are some people who have sort of left their post. They are dull and naive...lazy and stupid. They think there is no more conquest. They actually join the other side and attack their own people. I guess there is a danger they could be wolves among the sheep. lol And i guess there is some danger inside the church as well. lol But we in todays christian world lack street sense. Kind of like the kid in the Sound of music who blows the whistle on his friends.    
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1365  Forums / Theology Forum / Re: difference between affliction and punishment? on: April 26, 2012, 03:10:05 PM
God brought discipline to the Nation of Israel by real punishment. Because they were reprobate. Yes they enjoyed the benefits of the covenant but they were traitors to it...selling their birth rites for a some soup. lol

And God always fulfilled the desires of the righteous. How did He do this since they were swept away in this awful judgment? He provided them with a worship that did not depend upon the things of this earth. Because God has always had fellowship with His people through spirit. So God must not be worshiped in a local place but He demands worship from the heart.

What do you think happened to His remnant when He severely punished these reprobate traitors? God actually provided them with more longings for their country than when it was healthy. You see when persecution comes the church flourishes. The focus of Gods people sometimes gets blurred by the wealth and luxury of a nation. But God promises to bring His people before Him ...to see the light of His glory by keeping them with the company of vile offenders. Because God wants His people to not focus on their own strength and gifts but God wants to prepare blessing at the expense of the vile reprobates. So God judges the reprobates while using their thefts of the nations wealth for His inheritance.
But this is not the fundamental way that God blesses His people. Rather God wants to create a thirst that comes out of the world being like a rough ocean so that His people cry out. Now this is strong cries and tears so that He will deliver His people from bring totally destroyed. God must gift us with His presence in the mist of our trials or we will be burdened to the point of death.
The way God does this is through the righteous. We learn how to disentangle ourselves from this world through the art of transparency. It is an experience were we roll all of our troubles over to God and we experience a release and a sense of mystery. God comes to us with this divine sense of majesty and wonder. So we find that we are experiencing the separation from so that we feel a sense of hope out of the wonders of Gods promises . So we experience a kind of dulling of the worlds powers and at the same time we forget what we were being entangled by the cares of this world. We as it were experience a divine transparency. With this comes a future deliverance that is stored up in heaven for us. 
 
1366  Forums / Key Life Forum / Re: Three pre-paid sins? on: April 26, 2012, 01:05:36 PM
Thor your easy to disagree with because your mixing up the order of salvation. And if faith is required for salvation then its not a gift. But all of salvation is free and its by Gods unfailing love. The only reason that we have hope that our salvation is secure is because Gods love cannot fail us. But if there is something in us that God looks at and accepts as righteous then He is giving us something for value that in us.

I know we are always talking about being declared righteous but in my opinion this does not seem to value our justification as the basis for our sanctification. But i think more than this relationship the bible describes our salvation as being redeemed. Now in my opinion that provides the bases of our righteousness as to its worth. I mean our image of the new man.

This redemption is actually a purchase of us out of a slave market. Now a lot of people misrepresent this redemption and put us rite back under the yoke of the law. In other words that say that we are bought out of the slave market and made slaves of Christ. And they emphasis this kind of servile relationship that we have. But i see the apostle comparing slavery to our old relationship in Hagar.

As you know that slavery really was defined as someone who did not receive the inheritance of as Gods promise gift. And the bible makes a big point about this inheritance. It compares Gods salvation with receiving an inheritance. Let me say this that we being in the family of God by adoption supersedes a child born by the parents. So i believe this is directly related to our relationship of this purchased price.  got to go will take this up again  

Let me say that i believe the purpose of salvation was the establishment of a relationship that was severed. And the only cause of this was out of the grace of God. So when we use these terms such as justification... sanctification... redemption we are using them as a kind of value of Gods work. And this is why anytime we place value on the thing itself that becomes a term that is not relational. And we can take any word and make it say something that brings us control over others that the bible is not saying. This is why there is only one term that provides the basis of everyone being equal and that is grace.

So in a sense i do not like using a coin when we talk about justification and sanctification because when you turn the coin over the other one is out of sight. And the importance of justification as it relates to sanctification is to keep people from having authority that God never intended them to have over others.  Because if i can say that you get in through justification which is free and then sanctification is a matter of choice as if it was equilibrium free will... i mean to say the thing in itself is valuable to be obedient then i am in essence playing God.

This is why i stay away from dogma that is secondary because God does not need anything to bring a person through this life. And in fact this is why God provides the basis of the relationship by describing it as a purchase price because there is nothing of value in the christian life outside of God paying for it.

So i can say to you that unless you come to my church your a disobedient saint. Because the thing is a value in itself as if in sanctification the thing made us righteous. But we know that we have been declared righteous by Gods free declaration. And that non of our deeds are righteous in themselves. So if all we do in our sanctification is not righteous in themselves then those things do not make us righteous.. those things we can see .. touch..taste and feel. The only thing valuable in itself is what God has said. lol

This is why i always look at redemption because it is how i understand the value in relationships. lol I mean i can use the other terms to create a system for myself and get people to fall in line. But when i look at redemption i see a God who acts on behalf of me from the beginning of my christian life to the end. And there is nothing of value other than what He has done on my behalf. In my understanding this takes these servile relationships and brings them to what is really valuable in God work.

And i think this is exactly in the same way of the old testaments teaching on cursing and blessing. Because God does not just promise to make us holy but there is in us being holy a God who works on our behalf to protect us and be a substitute for us outside of the physical demands. Hes too good for me to be His servant... i feel lucky...- Its just like the animal. God gives them a way to atone for their sins and stipulates what they are to bring. They see this as the value of the thing itself. So they focus on their act and the animal without blemish instead of the relationship to this God. I believe all of this is because they failed to see that it was all of grace so there was a lack of acknowledgement that the value of their redemption was as it should have been and thus they had a servile relationship because they thought that God was harsh. As a leader you must be free to expose your own hypocrisy so that God is God.    
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1367  Forums / Theology Forum / Re: Praying scripture on: April 26, 2012, 11:32:24 AM
You will half to excuse me but I do say things sometimes because i want people to say.. "hey thats what i go through." lol But at the same time i am not saying this from a point of view like a group therapy. I am using techniques ive learned from the master drama queen... David. lol So let me say that ive spent most of my life fighting labels since i am somewhat keen about things beyond what i should be.

I have always been way to sensitive. In fact when i was in high school i could not control my sensitive side. And this cause all kinds of turmoil. I am very weak in a disposition sense. But one gift i had was being able to excel in bible interpretation. In all my classes i was average but in bible i got straight A s. But just the intellectual stimulation of the bible did not deliver me from my sensitivity. It wasnt until i started memorizing the scripture that i started to enjoy thoughts  were i did not question myself all the time.
Let me say this that i can understand why people live in their own minds and live a kind of defeatist life. Ive been accused of not being successful in my life. But it does not affect me because ive raised two kids... been poor all of my life... had a ministry on the side...seen my wife be extremely successful and every job ive had they have been number 1 company in their field. But this was not my ability ..i mean internal fortitude. This was supernatural.
Now a lot of people look at this and create profiles. lol... but because of these odd gifts that ive learned in the Psalms i will always be successful in my belief in my image. lol But i know some people out their are cursed with a very sensitive nature. And there is nothing more fulfilling than to try to get to the point where you enjoy God because its like a sharp sword. On the one hand you have the potential to be self defeating but on the other hand there is no better position in this life than to feel the love of God by how sensitive you are.
The other thing ive been cursed with is having a lot of insight. Ive spent a lot of time in my life saying stuff that people ignore. But down the road they come to my side. lol I am used to this. So it does not surprise me when this happens. But this is an awful gift in my opinion because i would much rather not see things that i know are not good. Now i am not brave enough to challenge these truths outside of the box .. yet. I still am not mused enough.
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1368  Forums / Theology Forum / Re: Praying scripture on: April 26, 2012, 10:44:47 AM
Ive been involved as you know with a lot of people who have not taken kindly to this idea of cursing the wicked in private. And ive even been warned that using these Psalms will bring curses to me. lol Let me say that anyone who experiences the Psalms knows that this shows the intent of why these people are in this religious system. One of the frustrations ive had is to see the outcome of our turning away from God and now more than anytime ive heard more universalism across the air waves than ive heard in my life time.
Its funny because being this radical in private actually gives the person the supernatural ability to accept sinners that those who come across as so universally accepting would reject. lol Its like the false prophets who the first thing that came out of their mouths was peace and love but they were the most prejudiced religious people...because it was all very shallow.
But the truth is that God has made this stuff so antithetical to the human nature that its impossible to form a system of religion that can make it successful. Hes made it so that we focus on hearing Him and then enjoying Him. This focus is one by one and is the most personal that we feel a sense of being far away and sometimes we do not even feel like this society is our home. We have exited it to the heavenly one.
This is why ive written so much about the difference between impersonal goals and personal. Because we are not in this stuff for the money or the success but for the people first. This is why the old theologians lived in a society where they did not have even their writings protected in copy rite. Im not saying this is wrong... but at least give this universalism vs cursing a little bit more respect. lol They would go through rough seas for their people. I am not condemning our system but just saying that its short sighted and it misses a lot of the enjoyment of God because of the wrong focus.  
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1369  Forums / Main Forum / Re: A good wife on: April 26, 2012, 10:27:14 AM
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1370  Forums / Main Forum / Re: A good wife on: April 26, 2012, 10:09:38 AM
MBG, I wish more people had your wisdom.

I think I understand what you're saying, but it's really hard to merely "rest" in what God defines for us and reveals in us, when you have random strangers who think they can tell you what to say, how to act, what you are limited by, etc., simply because they see your whole gender as in need of their great "wisdom" and domination.

I can relate to my husband, trust him, and go through the whole give-and-take of understanding with him over time, but strange men who think they can define who I am and how I ought to act...those are the ones that make me really, really angry.

As you mentioned, I can trust that they will eventually become "His trophies", but there are many times I would like to see them stuffed and mounted long before that time! Smiley

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1371  Forums / Theology Forum / Re: Reformed Doctrine on: April 25, 2012, 11:55:50 AM
Rom 7 13
But sin, etc. With no intention to offend others, I must state it as my opinion, that this passage ought to be read as I have rendered it, and the meaning is this, — “Sin is in a manner regarded as just before it is discovered by the law; but when it is by the law made known, then it really obtains its own name of sin; and hence it appears the more wicked, and, so to speak, the more sinful, because it turns the goodness of the law, by perverting it, to our destruction; for that must be very pestiferous ....bringing or bearing disease....., which makes what is in its own nature salutary ....favorable to or promoting health; healthful....... to be hurtful to us.” The import of the whole is — that it was necessary for the atrocity of sin to be discovered by the law; for except sin had burst forth into outrageous, or, as they say, into enormous excess, it would not have been acknowledged as sin; and the more outrageous does its enormity appear, when it converts life into death; and thus every excuse is taken away from it.


Here Calvin says that our first repentance was the experience of the law as a disease.. that being hurtful to us. Which is taken away in our life of transformation.

17. Now it is no more I who do it, etc.
but Paul here denies that he is wholly possessed by sin; nay, he declares himself to be exempt from its bondage, as though he had said, that sin only dwelt in some part of his soul, while with an earnest feeling of heart he strove for and aspired after the righteousness of God, and clearly proved that he had the law of God engraven within him. 225

Here Calvin says that Paul treated sin as that thing not to bring Him in bondage ...that being to the process of the law being a slave master ...that destructive process.. because of the earnest feeling of the heart.
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1372  Forums / Key Life Forum / Re: Three pre-paid sins? on: April 25, 2012, 10:42:24 AM
Let me discuss feelings. Feelings are the hand maiden of knowledge. David says that He praises God all day long and that he walks around so joyful that he hops and skips while chanting Psalms. In other words regeneration comes before faith.
Unlike Thor who believes that the act of faith enables salvation. Which is teaching that feelings control our reaction to sin and to the law. Because if our faith is good prior to Gods call then we offer something for God to enable us to know salvation. But this is a pipe dream. Its the most devilish doctrine that forces us to trust in our own repentance. So we begin to trust in the amount of guilt to cover over our sins. If we do not feel guilty enough then we cannot possibly come to God in acceptance after we sin. God will not accept sinners who do not turn completely from their sins. And so faith is equal to pragmatism. God is angry and in His anger He causes us to fear sinning. So we are always worried that God is gonna reject us because we have not completely turned from our sins. Thors position is the position of trusting in feelings. 
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1373  Forums / Key Life Forum / Re: Three pre-paid sins? on: April 25, 2012, 10:21:40 AM

No, because Jesus didn't come and die for your sins so you could continue to be in bondage to sin. That wouldn't be much of a salvation or a rescue on His part.

So if you have unlimited free sins, then isnt that freeing you from the bondage of sin? Seems like it to me, because you stop worrying about your goodness (or I should say badness) and put your focus on other things like having a milkshake with a friend or doing something for God that you wouldn't normally do because you would be worried that you wouldn't do a good enough job. Seems like obsessing with rules and following the spirit 24/7 is a pretty big burden to me. It is freeing when you do the same thing, but know that you have 3 free sins if you don't exactly get it right. You are free to try and free to fail and free to take a risk. You are free to be loved too.

3 free sins isnt saying to the sinner, hey your sin doesn't matter so continue to sin (haha winky winky), but rather to the Christian who has tried to purify his or her heart and actions and failed to get it right time after time.

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So if you have unlimited free sins, then isnt that freeing you from the bondage of sin?

…Absolutely not. If you continue to sin then you're still in bondage to sin and the flesh (just like an unbeliever) ...according to Paul in Romans

Rom 6:15  What then? shall we sin, because we are not under the law, but under grace? God forbid.
Rom 6:16  Know ye not, that to whom ye yield yourselves servants to obey, his servants ye are to whom ye obey; whether of sin unto death, or of obedience unto righteousness?
Rom 6:17  But God be thanked, that ye were the servants of sin, but ye have obeyed from the heart that form of doctrine which was delivered you.
Rom 6:18  Being then made free from sin, ye became the servants of righteousness.


Rom 8:1  There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.
Walking after the Spirit means to obey God.

Rom 8:8  So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God.
Sinning does not please God. If you think God is unpleased with you because of your sin then you are right. Stop sinning or get saved.

Rom 8:9  But ye are not in the flesh, but in the Spirit, if so be that the Spirit of God dwell in you. Now if any man have not the Spirit of Christ, he is none of his.
Rom 8:10  And if Christ be in you, the body is dead because of sin; but the Spirit is life because of righteousness.

Rom 8:12  Therefore, brethren, we are debtors, not to the flesh, to live after the flesh.
Rom 8:13  For if ye live after the flesh, ye shall die: but if ye through the Spirit do mortify the deeds of the body, ye shall live.

Here is a key verse to consider:
Rom 8:14  For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God.

Rom 8:15  For ye have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear; but ye have received the Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Father.
Rom 8:16  The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God:
When we are born again and choose to “follow Jesus” (implies action or doing) the Holy Spirit is placed in us. The Spirit lets us know in a personal way that we belong to God and that God loves us.
The only ones that ever wonder if God loves them are the religious unsaved who are resisting God or believers who almost never read and study their Bibles daily and fall into one sin after the other due to their ignorance and maybe rebellion against reading God’s Word. We know what the fruit of rebellion gets you.

Steve’s three sins are poison to believers and based on a confused view of the Bible and how people are saved and how the save must “walk” in their new life.

The saved person already knows God loves them. Too many believers forget to continue to have faith in God’s Word and turn to their feelings for confirmation of love and acceptance. You can not put your faith in your feelings. Because they don’t “feel” love or forgiveness they think God doesn’t love them. This is not in God's Word!
The believer must first put their “faith” in the “fact” of God’s Word and “feelings” play last in the formula.

This is the only way for a believer to walk in their Christian life.
On the other hand if a person continues to be in bondage to sin then they are most likely still unsaved.

Thor  cool

Walking after the Spirit is walking according to Gods word. What does God say about us? He says that if I held your sin against you no one could stand. I do not think God was just talking about the sins like the outward sins but the religious ones too. Like claiming to believe something that is not accurate as well. And presenting it as the truth. Because any time we speak for ourselves that is not accurate to the word of God we slip and fall.
Grace covers all of our sins. Grace is Gods unmerited favor that grants us His unfailing love. His unfailing love is the only available ability that we have for receiving grace. Grace is Gods free gifts to us according to His covenant. In His covenant He promises to complete in us what He has started. So that all of our lives are lived by the ability and the power of God. That means that any thing we receive.. even those things we worked for are given to us by God by His grace alone.
So we do not appeal to Him on the basis of our position before Him as a sinner but we appeal to Him on the basis of His unfailing love. The reason that we do this is because He says that our wills need to be spiritually forced to see God as He is so that we find all of the praise for our ability in God working on our behalf. God proves He is faithful by upholding His name in us. He does this by His unfailing love.
This means that God describes all the work that His saints do as He is working alone. lol Now this is interesting. Because God actually goes out before us and creates a way of righteousness. Now this is really encouraging. God actually proves His answer to our desire to have success by His unfailing love alone that He speaks on the sinners behalf as if He did the work Himself. lol So God in His grace that covers our sins forgets our weaknesses and covers over all of our faults. So He re images us in the world to prove He is just and right by what He does through us. lol.
Now how can we take ourselves so seriously if God overlooks our sins and treats us as a son? We are so loved that we feel a sense of utter helplessness knowing that God loves us even tho we fail miserably. In other words we do not just feel that our sin deserves His just wrath but we feel that we have no answer to our sin as if we could do something about it to please God. So we have a real understanding of our inability by telling God that we are concerned for our sin. In other words God reveals Himself to those who are transparent before Him.
God comes down to our level and deals with us as we are dust. He actually pities us. Because He deals with us by proving HIs faithfulness first so that we would not be burdened to be under the load of guilt and sin. God must love us beyond our level of dust to prove He is faithful to show the world His kindness through broken vessels. Thor is misquoting scripture.. i am telling you scripture in various parts of the bible. I dont think i wrote without thinking of a part of scripture.   
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1374  Forums / Theology Forum / Re: The coming of the great Apocalypse on: April 25, 2012, 09:46:53 AM
The chapters that ive memorized have in them the context of Christ conflict with the Pharisees. You have this seal which is Gods protection of his covenant people from spiritual death. I do not think these locust or horses and riders are necessarily a military force. Because the context is how the people carry on in society and how they unite under there king.. the King of the abyss.
So i believe these saints are the ones who ride in on the white horse. So there is the exposure of the rest of mankind to be so tormented by the leaders both religious and government that their single desire is to die. And you see this in the average person of Christ day who it was said had heavy burdens laid on their backs by these teachers of the Law of whom Christ said their father was the Devil. And this included physical pain of hanging on a cross.
These judgements on creation also were seen in earth quakes and the darkening of the sky at the death of Christ. In which you had the Father turning away from Christ who became sin for us. All of these words about snakes and vipers... lions.. and smoke, fire , sulfur are the words of destruction of the Pharisees. These words of the ot are a description of two kinds of fools.. the religious fool and the wicked fool. And you have these saints who suffered physical death but were protected from the mental anguish of these burdens and threats. And so they enter heaven and plead on behalf of the nt saints for revenge. But God tells them to wait for the end of the age.. that being this time period .. until the last saint suffers. And so we have this same conflict now until Christ is seen and then people will know and hide from the face of God. The judgement will be swift.    
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1375  Forums / Break Room / Re: Godspell on: April 25, 2012, 08:31:32 AM
One of the reasons i like this play is that it reminds me of a time when there was a need in the generations for better transparency before God. Let me say this that i think we have lost this art of being transparent.  I mean we do believe that God works through normal means but we also believe that God works outside of the normal means. Why do we not just teach that God only works through the normal means? Because the normal means are not available to us or they have strayed so far from being transparent that God goes outside of these ways and establishes other means.
What do i mean by transparency? Well it is an art of understanding that knowledge in itself is not the goal of our faith. So we do not just explain the intellectual part of teaching but we experience the application of truth as if we did not trust in the means themselves. And this goes to the system of belief. Ive been distinguishing between the physical elements of the cup and the word forms in the text. But all of the power is not in the things themselves. Because we are dealing with human institutions. And so we can lower the standard by just presenting this as automatic. We can begin to argue as a representative as a cog in the organization rather than listening to words and distinguishing spirits.
And this gets me back to transparency because i believe there is an element of rebellion in all of the reformations in the past. And so we have a man who stands up against these forms that people trust in and he does this because he experiences this cultural war as if it was all he lived for to bring people out of the chains of the law of the culture.
I believe this is what Christ experienced. He had such a zeal for the house of God that He went in and threw out the system of man. And this is exactly what going outside of the regular means of faith to bring salvation to people. I do not believe we can claim that if we have the means that gives us the power to do as we want. But we are subject to the word and the Spirit.
And this is why i am in this time experiencing a revival of sorts outside of the normal means. This play and the people do not know how they are being used to encourage me at this time. Because i see the hypocrisy this play brings out in a culture of a lack of religious transparency in the 70s. And i believe that God can work outside of the regular means of faith if there is a level of hypocrisy that is weighted so much that it permeates the church.
We are not looking at the means themselves but we are looking at the word and how it is applied to the present day hypocrisy. So we are looking in this personal sense and finding a sense of the revival of the Spirit in exposing the hypocrisy so that we experience this transparency. I havent had this much experience of the Spirit in quite a while. I have had a sense of otherness and after the play ive had this supernatural rest that i cannot understand. I ve experience a Spirit of reviving. And i can see that other people are experiencing this as well.
I think we have lost the art of finding God as being so mysterious that we are captivated by His bigness. And so we describe all of this as taking part in the means and being blessed. But God is big and dangerous. He upsets the apple cart so to speak. He calls for us to come before the throne and experience His mysterious danger. He wants to go beyond trusting in the sacrifice itself to having a sense of wonder and otherness. He wants to sort of baptize us with fire and the Holy Ghost. We are to seek Him beyond the means .. we are to seek God for God.      
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1376  Forums / Theology Forum / Re: Praying scripture on: April 24, 2012, 03:48:13 PM
Praying scripture is cataloging the spirit of the words in their original context. And the scripture uses ot words in the nt that have a specific gospel application. So if we could think of it like this. The more scripture we hide in our hearts the more we will have in our understanding the content of words as they are applied to us in the inner man.
This is different from having a head knowledge through the study of the words. Because wisdom comes down from heaven as a gift from God and not mechanically as a study. So that scripture as applied in grace to our understanding is new life. This new life is the gracious enjoyment of the doctrines of grace that subdue the will and cause us to enjoy the worship of God as if we were rising up to heaven. Its the soul experiencing the alignment of the mind will and emotions that are all caught up in God.
The alignment is having the desires molded by the words of scripture. So the words we hear as we pray and meditate have a life application in our experience. And one word is connected to all the other words of scripture as if there was a string line that ran through every word. So that one word is the unity of the Spirit of the other words.
We love each word because it is a divine word. Its a Trinitarian breathing in our hearts. Our hearts are like a dry pile of wood that needs a match and then the wind to produce a fire. The word in our hearts is like going beyond the words we read to have the match struck and all we need is the wind.
This is what we call longing for a word of salvation. We have longings that cannot be satisfied. So we long for a new word of salvation that can satisfy us until we have enjoy that new word and we look to a new word. And this is not like praising God for something physical. But this is being given divine wisdom in which God deliverers us from a situation or he answers our prayers and we are alerted that it is the word spoken to us loud and clear. And we have an experience of the light of the glory of God according to that word spoken to us. Then we develop a sense about these words that build upon one another. We are going from the word to the Person. Now after a lot of back log then the Spirit begins to lust within us. We are over come by the Spirit because He witnesses with our spirits. His witness is this divine fellowship .. a sweetness of His communication of that light to us.   
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1377  Forums / Main Forum / Re: A good wife on: April 24, 2012, 12:22:15 PM
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Gouda, do you think there is a difference between liking something and demanding it? I said I would like those things. If I met a woman who actually enjoyed doing those things for me then that would be my dream woman. Some women actually enjoy being homemakers and serving their husbands like Kings of the castle.

If I was married and my wife was sick with a fever I would be taking care of her, not asking her to iron my boxer briefs.

I don't know what an A.I group is either but I picture it as an artificial intelligence group whose goal is to create a robotic maid like in the Jetsons who cooks and cleans and fluffs pillows while I relax on the comfy chair with my iPad.

Yes, I absolutely believe there is a difference between liking and demanding.  The thing is (and I may be biased due to limited experience), I see such demands made generally more on the woman than on the man in the church.

We hear the perfect (and impossibly attainable) Proverbs 31 woman thrown at us so much it makes us ill.  We are taught to stuff down our own wants and desires and taught our place is submission from our early childhood.  We're taught to "be nice" no matter what. We get the garbage articles like the one you posted about why we are to be doormats without any identity or desires of our own. We fill most of the volunteer positions at the church, give most of the money, buy most of the Christian books, etc., and yet, we are still told we should be giving more and expecting less, because it is our rightful place to serve. (Fair or not, that's what I've seen.)

And if we ever grumble, or ask for something different, we're told something like you said, that we're supposed to totally enjoy "serving our husbands like King of the castle."  We really are not a different species--we feel the same selfishness, hopes, and dreams that you do.

I am pleased to serve my husband because I trust him.  I know when I'm down and need someone to support and serve me, he will be there.  I would even serve him for a long, long time even if he let me down often, but eventually I would give up hope on the relationship if he was never really "there" for me. I'm human. Women have needs, too, and are not any more capable of unending selfless love than any man.


And, thanks for the laugh on that last paragraph! That was funny.


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1378  Forums / Theology Forum / Re: difference between affliction and punishment? on: April 24, 2012, 10:58:45 AM
I get frustrated about the language of religion today. We have managed to eliminate all the negative messages. Now i believe in the renewal effects of the image of Christ. But there is a part that gives us hope in the judgements as well. Now this may be a reaction to making the gospel seem like a person who wrestles the other person to the ground. But its really not like that. Because no one wants to appear to be the ravaging person in the corner who destroys his opponent. And so in some ways we feel obligated to be the nice guy because we have a stake in the positive by not understanding how the judgements are Gods faithfulness to uphold His covenant people. If we fail to leave the gospel in Gods hands then of course we want to be the nice guy. lol

But im thinking that most of the judgements we see in nature and on a big level are God protecting His covenant remnant. Because i really believe that blessing can cover Gods chosen people while cursing is only appointed to destroy the wicked. And to me the wisdom in the ot is that those who are Gods people will escape the curses not necessarily the curses due to sin in an indirect way.

And this is why i believe that God brought those storms through the desert to protect His covenant people. And i would surmise that God ripped the forest apart so that the enemies of Israel had no were to hide in attacking them. Because i believe that the voice of God is showing His faithfulness to His people by saving them from their enemies and giving the a real reason to rejoice. So in my understanding the rest they experience as a matter of conversion is Gods other actions in the same will to actively go out to destroy their enemies. And you see this deep understanding in this Psalm and the psychology of Gods activity in this world.     
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1379  Forums / Key Life Forum / Re: Three pre-paid sins? on: April 24, 2012, 10:32:44 AM
The gospel is not a message to control the masses. It speaks of complete destruction through the work of Christ. If the description of the destruction of all that oppose the gospel was seen by those who live by the law then in some ways God is powerless to act in Himself to make a person righteous in His sight. The gospel is not just a message to receive but its the power of God that saves a person. lol The gospel is the medicine.

We must understand that God has done the work necessary to give us an inward experience of joy and confidence. God is deeply concerned about the way we feel in our earthly experience. He is focused on the way we feel. Because salvation is going from a state of misery and bondage to a state of freedom and joy. How can we say that God is faithful if we do not experience the effects of salvation? Can we lower the standard of gospel experience in this feeling area by saying that all of our confidence is self pride?

Yes, in not understanding ourselves we can miss represent Gods salvation. Because salvation is not just something that makes us better but its deliverance from slavery and bondage to the law. Because the principle of the law is to curse those who do not obey it. So the curses surround the person who lives by the law as a school master. The person is blind and would never ask personal questions about himself in His relationship to God as Father. He would never understand all of the gifts that come out of heaven that prove God is faithful. But the gospel is a deliverance from all of the bad inward experiences. We call this being converted.

Conversion has an identity that is deeply personal. Because conversion is going from a state of misery and bondage to the experience of freedom and rejoicing. So the effects of conversion are a deep state of peace and tranquility. When we say to ourselves how do i feel about this worship that is something that supports the question "Do i experience conversion?" Or is this just another way of being in a state of continuous anxiety and feeling like i have been accused? Because the gospel converts us from a life of accusations to a life of confidence and joy even tho we still sin.

How do we judge our conversions? By focusing on the experience of inward deliverance. Prior to our being delivered from sin and misery we were in a pit of anxiety and slavery. But God delivered us from that pit and put a new song in our hearts. These songs are songs of conversion. They express the experience of our going from misery to joy. God actually does not treat us as slaves but as sons. Now to be changed into the image of Christ we must experience being accepted like a son who lives in the family by the principle of love and acceptance. Or unfailing love.

The reason why we do not know ourselves is because we have never sought to the unfailing kindness of God as if it was a direct message to us from our Father. So we are confused about what is pride and what is real acceptance. But to not focus on conversion is to fail to move on in our christian life by looking in all the wrong places for real acceptance and joy. We fail to watch our hearts. We have lost our first love. That first time when we experience the saving effects of conversion. That rest from or works and our guilt. We now feel guilty for having confidence in our feelings. lol

But God delivered us from the pit so that we might be filled with confidence and joy unspeakable. He gave us the experience of conversion so that we might seek this experience which is His joy that we are so persistent to find Gods most mysterious love. Its being converted by the communication of His goodness and kindness. Has your heart be so enlarged that you feel like any more and you will burst ? Do you seek a worship that is spiritual or are you satisfied with just the physical act itself? When have you asked yourself how do i feel about this worship? When have your renewed longings been satisfied to the point where you experience real rest?       
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