| 2987 | Forums / Main Forum / Re: When does grace end and consequences begin? | on: November 07, 2010, 12:29:18 AM |
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jim:
"grace does not = license to sin all you like and be presumptuous or
even contemptuous of God's grace. Nor does grace = indulging people or
being passive with those engaged in sinful/harmful practices."
K_k: Yes. Where there is no repentance there is no reception of grace. But if a person is trying to change, has a heart turning toward God, then grace abounds. Jesus spoke boldly in confrontation with the pharisees and sadducees. The grace they needed was to humble themselves before their Maker, but they refused to recognize Him. If someone is using drugs habitually, they usually need to face consequences before they can turn away from them toward God, which is repentance. As long as chronic drug use seems enjoyable and free of harmful consequences (which is an illusion of course), then the addict is doomed to deterioration. Sometimes grace is the ability to firmly confront a friend who is using, and letting them know that you love them, and will stand by them all they way when they want help to get off the drugs, but that you don't want to participate in their self-destruction -- come see my as soon as you want help, but in the meantime we'll pray for you, especially that you find Christ Who will set you free. As Jim indicated, grace does not equal passive acceptance of self-dectructive sin. That is a distortion which satan and crew have promoted well in our culture, since it paralyzes Believers away from acting in the best interests of addicted loved ones. And their best interest is almost always to face the results of their behavior as soon as possible. The longer we "cover" for a hurting friend, the longer and deeper the descent into misery. First repentance is one side of faith. Faith is a gift. So repentance cannot earn grace. But grace precedes repentance. Repentance is not an act of contrition. But repentance is simply turning to Christ. Grace is the ability that proceeds repenting and believing. Repentance is not sorrow. Repentance is not leaving a sin. Repentance is not confessing to one another. Repentance is simply believing and trusting in Christ for everything. Repentance is not a one time act but it is a way of life. Second the addiction to drugs is a physical addiction. After many tries to leave drugs through the process of drying the person out ..eventually the person will gain the strength to overcome the addiction. The spiritual part is just a confession away and the person is healed. The physical addiction should be dealt with and spiritual growth is necessary to no longer be defined by the addiction. There are some things we do over and over again that we enjoy. These are not addictions but enjoyments. So we dont want to go the other way and put someone under legalism. |
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| 3000 | Forums / Theology Forum / Re: Does sinning break fellowship with Jesus? | on: October 28, 2010, 01:42:25 PM | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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We confuse punishment and the troubles of the
world. Our first instinct is to listen to the counselor voice. Or its
the voice of the post scientific discoveries and studies. What i mean by
post scientific communication is that we no longer allude the the
study... in the 70s generation there was this new method of learning
relationships and it was just gaining ground in the social sciences. I
remember this like the back of my hand..... So they used to say... when
we look at the behavior of the animals and they would give you the
particular paper ... then we get a better view of the problems of
marriage... but now it has been so ingrained in the culture that we
just assume the new relationship communication is the truth. I call this
the counselor voice.
But the believer understands that God works out all things for the good. We work and God works ... or God works in us. So we need to see that we are totally dependent on God as the motif for the second commandment. In other words all other gods are from this scientific study method. That is human relationships defined down to the earthly level. Every problem must be solved by God alone. We can do nothing. Our honor ... or our return of rewards ... is dependent on God alone! We start communicating wrongly and we add the troubles that come from the world system to ourselves. So when we speak to the post scientific culture we do not speak from the same mindset. So we say i dont worry because God will work it out... they say... your responsible... we say yes and thats what scares us because we are such failures. So that our doctrine produces rest and ease while their scientific methods produce anxiety ... regret.. sorrow... and determinism of the counselor voice. They say that the experience of men and women prove the need to change a behavior. This language comes with a sub text of scientific studies. We say that God alone is able to change the situation no matter how bad it is. We must be dominated by the biblical mandates. We must not think that we know better. Every false teaching starts with self talk. Its the talk of the world... its not seeing God as the beginning and the end of all things. Our sorrows do not produce our relationship problems but they define who we are in society. We live before a holy God who knows us better than we know ourselves. No horizontal relationship is going to make us less sorrowful. The only hope is coming before God and talking to Him in the wisdom that we have been taught from our young yrs. We must define our relationship with God as the holistic understanding of who we are and we respond in the life that we know we experience with God alone! We must learn how to unburden our souls to God.. to quiet our souls like a weened child... totally dependent on his mother... Or we will be looking in all the wrong places for acceptance and holistic healing. This is from yrs of talking to myself in the wisdom books. |
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