I find you have your controlling types who are
concerned about the mechanics of the marriage and the discipline. Then
you have the compliant types who are concerned about feelings..
equality... and keeping the peace. Now if both are unsaved then they
will make trade offs in their own minds in a way to compromise. Cause
everyone tends to exaggerate ...in the most close connection. Its a
matter of getting a person to blow off some steam than go to sensitive
areas and increase the pressure in the marriage. People are human
beings. Stay away from the scrupulous behavior experts...my point. But
then you have two believers. This is what makes a marriage a complete
connection. Because marriage is a covenant between to people.. just as
God makes a covenant in salvation. It is possible for two people to know
how God loves them in covenant. That is what frees people to get along.
If you have a non believer and a believer then its going to be a
lot of compromise and boundaries. Because how can two people walk
together unless they agree? Speaking of these fundamental issues of the
faith. One partner has God as Father... the other partner has Satan as
father. So the loves are going to create all kinds of convergences.
Unless of course you put your head in the sand. Which some people can
do. Let me say this... i am not trying to put people in a box i
am not talking about everyone is this category. But i think first born
husbands are the most obnoxious partners because they have qualities
that are not initially produced in a christian sense. These qualities of
Gods people are passive in nature. As i have said ...marriage is about
decreasing the pressure not increasing it. Its averse to a relationship
to be overly social... overly political... overly demanding...overly
focused on people and not on the mortification responsibilities-over
looking sins in others... try to get a first born to sit and meditate
for awhile. gezzzz.... these are all qualities of anger if taken to an
extreme. But if a person is thoughtful ... not aggressive... does
not talk bad about the other partner in a public sense (i mean you got
to blow of some steam with someone) ... is easily compliant... gives
respect for feelings when it is not deserved ...and leaves other
responsibilities to focus on heart work then they are chided... told to
get with it. etc.Look i would not talk yourself out of the importance of
these qualities.. this is what conviction is all about. The whole
point is that the kingdom of God is upside down. Thats why you cant fake
horizontal relationships if the vertical is not there.
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on: April 24, 2010, 10:41:35 PM
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Wow, great battle in the wildlife video. And i happened to notice that it had over 52 million viewers. I can see why.
And
the space shots are fantastic! It's also amazing looking the other
way, instead of outer, to inner space. Ever see the movie "Unlocking
the Mystery of Life"? It has some really excellent 3D-like computer
simulations of the workings of the cell mechanisms. If anything should
help an atheist see the impossibility of life evolving by sheer chance,
it would be that production.
Thanks Kk hope all is well... i will look into that film.
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Forums / Key Life Forum / Re: The Wrath of God - Q&A 10/24/08
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on: April 24, 2010, 09:44:51 PM
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Kk what about this passage?
The Rich Man and Lazarus Luke
16 19"There was a rich man who was dressed in purple and fine linen and
lived in luxury every day. 20At his gate was laid a beggar named
Lazarus, covered with sores 21and longing to eat what fell from the rich
man's table. Even the dogs came and licked his sores.
22"The
time came when the beggar died and the angels carried him to Abraham's
side. The rich man also died and was buried. 23In hell,[c] where he was
in torment, he looked up and saw Abraham far away, with Lazarus by his
side. 24So he called to him, 'Father Abraham, have pity on me and send
Lazarus to dip the tip of his finger in water and cool my tongue,
because I am in agony in this fire.'
25"But Abraham replied,
'Son, remember that in your lifetime you received your good things,
while Lazarus received bad things, but now he is comforted here and you
are in agony. 26And besides all this, between us and you a great chasm
has been fixed, so that those who want to go from here to you cannot,
nor can anyone cross over from there to us.'
27"He answered,
'Then I beg you, father, send Lazarus to my father's house, 28for I have
five brothers. Let him warn them, so that they will not also come to
this place of torment.'
29"Abraham replied, 'They have Moses and the Prophets; let them listen to them.'
30" 'No, father Abraham,' he said, 'but if someone from the dead goes to them, they will repent.'
31"He
said to him, 'If they do not listen to Moses and the Prophets, they
will not be convinced even if someone rises from the dead.' "
Thats awfully mean of Abraham... but it shows how impossible salvation is without being regenerated.
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Forums / Theology Forum / Re: Romans Chapt. 5 commentary John Calvin
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on: April 22, 2010, 08:48:08 PM
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10. This is an explanation of the former
verse, amplified by introducing a comparison between life and death. We
were enemies, he says, when Christ interposed for the purpose of
propitiating the Father: through this reconciliation we are now friends;
since this was effected by his death; much more influential and
efficacious will be his life. 162162 “By his life,” the abstract for
the concrete; it means, “through him being alive,” being at God’s right
hand, having every power committed to him, and making intercession for
us Romans 8:34. “Because I live, ye shall live also.” John 14:19. — Ed.
We hence have ample proofs to strengthen our hearts with confidence
respecting our salvation. By saying that we were reconciled to God by
the death of Christ, he means, that it was the sacrifice of expiation,
by which God was pacified towards the world, as I have showed in the
fourth chapter.
But the Apostle seems here to be inconsistent
with himself; for if the death of Christ was a pledge of the divine love
towards us, it follows that we were already acceptable to him; but he
says now, that we were enemies. To this answer, that as God hates sin,
we are also hated by him his far as we are sinners; but as in his secret
counsel he chooses us into the body of Christ, he ceases to hate us:
but restoration to favor is unknown to us, until we attain it by faith.
Hence with regard to us, we are always enemies, until the death of
Christ interposes in order to propitiate God. And this twofold aspect of
things ought to be noticed; for we do not know the gratuitous mercy of
God otherwise than as it appears from this — that he spared not his
only-begotten Son; for he loved us at a time when there was discord
between him and us: nor can we sufficiently understand the benefit
brought to us by the death of Christ, except this be the beginning of
our reconciliation with God, that we are persuaded that it is by the
expiation that has been made, that he, who was before justly angry with
us, is now propitious to us. Since then our reception into favor is
ascribed to the death of Christ, the meaning is, that guilt is thereby
taken away, to which we should be otherwise exposed.
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Forums / Key Life Forum / Re: The Wrath of God - Q&A 10/24/08
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on: April 22, 2010, 03:30:47 PM
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Kk
"God is love" will be seen both in the elimination of all sin and evil,
and of all those who would rather die than live with Him forever, even
as He has shown He would rather take on human form and die than live
without us forever.
Are you talking about alienation here or a literal hell?
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Forums / Theology Forum / Re: Why do our opinions differ?
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on: April 22, 2010, 01:08:38 PM
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The reasoning is that a universe is causeless
unless you have God. And if you have God then He must be God. If He is
God then His word is absolutely sure and steadfast ... God never changes
and no man can thwart His word. Because God is three in one then He is
an image of Himself. And an expression of that image. Because all
reality is the expression of His communication in a Trinitarian sense.
Every spoken word of God is fully God in its image. Therefore God is His
own end in all of the communication of reality. But we are sinful
creatures who have no understanding of God apart from God revealing it
to us. So we say that His word is self attesting. It stands by itself
and the truth is in His truth. Because our reality is very narrow and we
judge things based upon our own perception of self rule. We are little
god makers.
But God has reveal some things that are plain to
understand. Even a child could comprehend. That is salvation is through
grace alone by faith alone in Christ alone. We have a layout of all of
the plain things that are necessary to understand salvation as it is
ongoing. Like justification by faith...
sanctification...glorification...adoption... the five points of
calvinism etc. We must distinguish between the things that are essential
and the things that are mysterious. That is what defines our healthy
view of this world.
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