211 | Forums / Break Room / Re: Why do men hate women? | on: June 30, 2014, 03:50:51 PM |
Im speaking from a mans perspective so I dont
mean to ignore the problems on both sides. But men pride themselves in
achieving success. I grew up living and breathing sports. Sports is good
because we learn that if we are successful there are rewards and
respect that we get as a by product. How would you feel if you excelled
at something at a young age ....8 yrs and you had adults coming up to
you showing great respect? Its sort of the problems that come with being
famous but on a much smaller level. So you learn that working hard
equals success.
But the bible teaches that aggression is not just displayed in an attempt to achieve success and rewards. But aggression starts in the way we speak about ourselves in light of the truth of Gods word. Every time you see the bible describe a liar its always follow by how they speak with threats to Gods ways. God considers threats to be how we view our own power in comparison to Gods power. We could be the most outwardly moral looking guy ...or we could do some really bad sins and it would not be how God measures wickedness. God says that taking glory for ourselves is making war with Him. And making war with Him is His measure of wickedness. God doesnt have a sliding scale. Its either we are on the side of blame that being we are a friend of a friend of the wicked or we are on the side of love ...which is we are a friend of God who is a friend of a friend of God. When men are blind to Gods ways they are naturally mean and aggressive to woman. It is impossible for men to live as cheerleaders to their wives if they do not understand Gods grace. There are only two kinds of creative methods. One is aggression and wicked and comes from a self made man. A self made man is a man who is his own god. This man does not believe that everything he has is gifted to him by God. So he seeks to control everything through aggression. Let me say that a coward is a man who uses language to control other people. Its a person who is threatened by the success of others. It is impossible for men to truly rejoice in the success of others in his natural state. God has ended all blame and aggression by simply speaking life and death. God does not need to speak threatening words in order to control His people. On the other hand God makes a covenant with His people that He will order all things for their good and for His glory. He calls this the covenant of redemption. God only has two ways. Either He is worse than He seems be or He is far greater and worthy than we could imagine. The reason that God is absolute in His judgements is because one small word can determine the course of a persons life. Gods measurements are much different than ours. God must destroy the words of aggression and blame. He must rule by good over evil. Its hard for us to die to our aggression. We think that God needs to hit us up the side of the head. But God teaches us to be loving by loving us first. God orders all things to be good because His disposition cannot be thwarted. God has an eternal loving disposition that emanates through our lives. He reduces us to being beneath others through blessing us with gifts by being low. We learn there are rewards far greater in being cheerleaders than being aggressive. |
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225 | Forums / Main Forum / Re: Answering the critics. | on: June 17, 2014, 05:19:42 PM |
Now the problem is not how to better
understand ourselves. It is dangerous to make absolute judgements about
ourselves in light of our circumstances. In my young 20s I could not be
happy unless I examined myself and knew exactly what went wrong in my
daily life. I could not let go of my life. My own thinking was
destroying myself.
It took me years to see that it wasnt what I thought or what I did but how God was making me fit in. When I understood this concept I did not need people to accept me. Before I had no way of measuring what it was like to fit in because I did not trust God to perform what was necessary for me to fit in. When I had enough understanding to see what God was doing then I no longer needed to please other people. This transformed my life. I now let myself go. Now I can tell you about most of my experiences the amount of unity I experienced at different parts of my life. I got so good at measuring and feeling unity that I experienced some things in this life...i mean when the situation meets the purpose we are made for... that most people will never get to. I went up to the top so to speak of that experience. But on this earth it will never be consistently that way. But unity is a meta physical state of mind... now i feel unity so much that it overcomes me and i lose a sense of the physical. |
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